I have been gruntled, so far all day.
It beats the tar out of being disgruntled.
If anything changes, it will be my choice.
Our attitudes are always our choices.
No one can "make us" feel anything.
However ...
There are things, about which, I do choose to be disgruntled. I choose to lean into the pain and be disheartened and disgusted.
Whatever degrades humanity or oppresses people offends me and I choose to be offended by racism ...not just of one man, but of society.
It is systemic.
Are you gruntled or disgruntled?
You can be both at the same time, sometimes.
Sometimes, both are needed.
